Love Deficit

1) Broken Families 
As humans we all need to be loved.
Problems arise in a person's life when there is no love in their lives. 
Some people aren’t loved by their parents, they are stuck between their family problems. This is when they can turn out to be insecure.
God desires to see all families happy and peaceful.

Jeremiah 32:39-40
39 I will give them singleness of heart and action, so that they will always fear me and that all will then go well for them and for their children after them. 40 I will make an everlasting covenant with them: I will never stop doing good to them, and I will inspire them to fear me, so that they will never turn away from me.

If the husband and wife stand together in unity there will be blessings in their lives. 

2) Cruelty of parents:-
Another reason that can make children feel unloved is the cruelty of parents.
Some reflect it in their behavior and some are wounded in their hearts but remain silent.

What parents need to understand is that though a child has to be corrected, cruelty in straightening the child will not help. The child must be corrected when he or she does something wrong, not for the parent to let out his or her frustration.

3) Death of a Parent:-
 When children do not have their parents around them they crave for it and they need more love. 
When such children get married they look for their parents' love from their spouses but that kind of love cannot be found in them, it can be found in Christ alone. 
This is a type of traumatic experience.

Some other things that affect are:- 
•Not being celebrated by one’s parents 
•Not receiving parental affection 
•Not getting proper food, clothing, medical and dental care
•Not being taught how to do hard things 
•Not being given the opportunity to develop personal talents

We need to identify if we are a victim and understand that through Jesus alone can we be healed.

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